Married Life

A couple of people have asked my Goddess how's married life, and so she's sharing her response here.

Generally, it's not much different from being single. Things are going on more or less as usual.

But guess my Goddess is feeling less of the impact since they are staying at her place currently. Once she needs to pay her own bills, clean the house and wash her own clothes, things will be more different.

Something different now is that she now has to plan her schedule more or less to his. No more going to gym at least 3 times a week or going home alone early. So now they ended up sleeping later after going back from dinner at the in-laws.

And now, she has to regularly remind herself that she's a married woman so must be more accommodating to him and plan things taking into consideration of them as a couple and not separate individuals.

Think for him, the major inconvenience is travelling to work. There's no mrt around her place so he has to take buses to work, and it takes him at least an hour and half to work. Plus he's not used to having the bathroom so far away from the bedroom and now he's beginning to understand why my Goddess sometimes feel lazy to bathe. And they have yet to sort out their laundry yet, so her mom is still washing her clothes :p and he intends to bring home his for his mom to wash.

Furthermore, the 2 of them have peculiarly different habits. He's often feeling warm and needs the aircon cold she's afraid of the cold. She needs to have the tv on in the morning to wake herself up but he needs peace and quiet in the morning. And despite them being a messy and lazy couple, he's more messy than her and even she cannot stand it herself and have to pick up after him.

Think the happiest person in the house is me. Whenever they come home, I will jump and bark and growl like mad. I will follow them upstairs to check out what they are doing. It's great fun to have one more person playing with me!